Kaitlyn Pietras

Death Doula

Los Angeles, CA Long Beach, CA Anaheim, CA

Grief Specialist, Home Funerals, LGBTQ Allied, Rituals

Offers free consultation

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Hello! I’m Kaitlyn, a queer Jewish grief worker and visual artist based in Los Angeles. My practice is rooted in the intersection of grief, death, and art, creating meaningful spaces for those navigating life’s most profound transitions. I received my Death Doula certification from Jill Schock at Death Doula LA. With a BA in Architecture and an MFA in Design for Live Entertainment from UCLA, my background in art and storytelling allows me to create environments that feel physically, energetically, and spiritually supportive for my clients and their loved ones. I’m committed to lifelong learning and recently attended Allison Bagg’s Ancient Future Sound Academy to deepen my understanding of sound as a healing modality. I love providing my clients with tools that have resonated with me in my own grief journey. In addition to my death doula training, I completed the Deeper Deathwork intensive with DeathWives, focusing on end-of-life care and grief studies. I’ve also completed Herbalism for Grief, a 10-part course on plant allies for grief, trauma, and herbal rituals taught by Mara June of Motherwort + Rose, as well as The Herbal Academy’s Introductory Herbalism Course. I’m passionate about integrating rituals and art into my practice. A recent spell I wrote, inspired by the Jewish ritual of Tashlikh, is featured in Grieving as Shapeshifting: Spells for Coming Undone. Additionally, I’m a contributing artist in The Rebis Vol. 2: Chariot and have an art piece featured in the Jewish Zine Archive’s Omnibus. Currently, I am the Curator + Director of Programming at Studio DDLA, a death and mortality-centered art gallery and community space in Chinatown, Los Angeles, where I also facilitate monthly queer grief circles.


Kaitlyn (she/her) is a queer Jewish grief worker and visual artist. She is the Curator + Director of Programming at Studio DDLA, where she recieved her Death Doula certification under the guidance of Jill Schock. Kaitlyn is passionate about tending to personal and communal grief, connecting with her ancestors, and serving the LGBTQIA+ community. She has a deep love for plant magic + Jewish mysticism.


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Certifications

  • Death Doula LA

Education

  • Deeper Deathwork, Deathwives, 2023
  • Death Doula LA, Perfect Form 101, 2023
  • The Herbal Academy, Introductory Herbalism, 2020
  • UCLA TFT, MFA Design for Entertainment, 2012
  • Clemson University, BA Architecture, 2009

Kim R

“To be witnessed in my grief was even more powerful than I imagined. It meant a lot to me to feel like my complex emotions and feelings were validated and acknowledged by someone. Kaitlyn is excellent at holding space, I felt held and safe. She made me feel like what I was feeling in the moment was ok and there was no need to change anything or try to “fix it”. Instead, Kaitlyn gave me permission to allow my complex grief to be what it was. And that simple act greatly reduced the intensity of what I was feeling.”

Nick M

“Kaitlyn helped me immensely on my grief journey during multiple witnessing sessions. It was invaluable to have her support as I drudged up some deeply buried feelings and memories, and we were able to begin a new healing process. Kaitlyn provided tea, a meditation, and an open ear as I recounted details around my mother’s death from 20 years prior. The most valuable thing that I learned about my grief story is that I was unable to honestly describe my mother’s personality and her flaws. Our session lead me to get in touch with the whole story and I was able to accept my mother fully. Working with Kaitlyn was a powerful experience and I am grateful to her.”

Addie T

"Sitting next to the flowing river, Kaitlyn opened and held space for two big anticipated losses I was facing, and helped me map them to the web of deep generational grief I carry from my past. I can honestly say that I have been able to dance with and move through both experiences with a profound sense of connection to myself in a way I wouldn’t have been able to do without her help. Her work is embodied, gentle, witchy, and heart-opening."


What types of services do you provide?

Grief Witnessing, Threshold Support, Ritual Guidance, Vigil Sitting

What should clients know about your pricing(e.g., discounts, fees, packages)?

Pricing and offerings are outlined on my website.


Jewish, LGBTQIA+


Years In Business

  • 2023

Number Of Employees

  • 1

Service Areas

  • Los Angeles, CA
  • Long Beach, CA
  • Anaheim, CA

Languages

  • English

Payment Method

  • Barter
  • Venmo

Address

Los Angeles, CA 90039

Travel Preferences

I support clients virtually (phone/internet)

Clients travel to me

I travel to clients


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